function nm_accept_friendship_request(friendship_request_id, element_id){
	$.getJSON("/ax_accept_decline_friendship_request.php", { friendship_request_id: friendship_request_id, op:'accept'},
		function(data){
			if(data.status==-1){
				createAndShowPopin("ax_popin_login.php","","#reg_username");
			}else if(data.status==0){
				createAndShowPopin('','default_form_error',data.message);
			}else if(data.status==1){
				createAndShowPopin('','default_form_success',data.message);
				$('#'+element_id).remove();
				$('.myhome_squares_bg_buddyrequest').parents('.myhome_pipeline_child').remove();
				update_notify_menu();

				//this will update the account's frontpage
				$.getJSON("/ax_get_number_friendship_requests.php", null, 
					function(data){
						if(data.friendship_requests==0){
							$('#acc_summary_buddies').remove();
							$('#acc_summary_buddies_link').remove();
						}
					}
				);
			}
	});
}

function nm_decline_friendship_request(friendship_request_id, element_id){
	$.getJSON("/ax_accept_decline_friendship_request.php", { friendship_request_id: friendship_request_id, op:'decline'},
		function(data){
			if(data.status==-1){
				createAndShowPopin("ax_popin_login.php","","#reg_username");
			}else if(data.status==0){
				createAndShowPopin('','default_form_error',data.message);
			}else if(data.status==1){
				createAndShowPopin('','default_form_success',data.message);
				$('#'+element_id).remove();
				$('.myhome_squares_bg_buddyrequest').parents('.myhome_pipeline_child').remove();
				update_notify_menu();

				//this will update the account's front page
				$.getJSON("/ax_get_number_friendship_requests.php", null, 
					function(data){
						if(data.friendship_requests==0){
							$('#acc_summary_buddies').remove();
							$('#acc_summary_buddies_link').remove();
						}
					}
				);
			}
		}
	);
}